Relationships & Inner Wounds

The mother and father wounds, the relationship cauldron, and the conflicts that crack us open to deeper intimacy and growth.

Back to the Relationship Cauldron for Personal Growth

Back to the Relationship Cauldron for Personal Growth

This short blog is just to acquaint people of my most recent venture (as a therapist/healer)! For some time I have been teaching/training clients in some basic relationship strengthening tools. The wo

Filaments of Desire: Bondings of Personal Histories

Filaments of Desire: Bondings of Personal Histories

From Quantum Physics we read of "string theory"; from shamanic traditions we read of filaments of interconnectedness between All. From my psychotherapy practice and personal take on reality I experien

Emotional Intimacy in Relationships

Emotional Intimacy in Relationships

Creating Emotional Intimacy in Relationships The relationships naturally changes over time. Emotional intimacy that was once passionate and exciting can diminish unless steps are taken to help maintai

The Mother Wound

The Mother Wound

The Mother Wound The abandonment and betrayals of “fathers” has the corollary of “mothers” not protecting us or providing our nurturance. It is the mother not stepping in like a grizzly bear, subduing

The Father Wound

The Father Wound

It has long been my generalized belief that men are more wounded then women. I believe this has to do with the absence of dad's as healthy role models. One kind of addictive disorder or another tends

Back to Time Outs: Learning to Respond vs. React

Back to Time Outs: Learning to Respond vs. React

Along with "The purpose of my life is to become fully integrated!" comes the idea of becoming "present." See Fire in the Mind: Science, Faith, and the Search for Order ; Biography of Joseph Campbell.

Time Outs, Turkey and the Wisdom of Rumi!

Time Outs, Turkey and the Wisdom of Rumi!

Near a month has passed! It can be said that I took a prolonged "Time Out" to work on some of my issues. It can more honestly be said that I "followed a leader" and "let things go!" Three weeks to Ist

The Relationship Cauldron: The gift of interpersonal conflicts!

The Relationship Cauldron: The gift of interpersonal conflicts!

All that we experience is a gift. Even pain is a gift! Anytime we get information that creates uncomfortable sensations in our body it has to do with alerting our conscious mind to look at choices and

The Law of Attraction, Repetition Compulsion and Relationship Cauldron

The Law of Attraction, Repetition Compulsion and Relationship Cauldron

We have been paying lots of attention lately to The Law of Attraction, Abraham's Teachings as conveyed by Ester Hicks. The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships S